Aug. 2nd, 2005

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- Being on call takes some getting used to. I'm getting a lot better at carrying my cell phone with me, but still need to remember to bring my "little kit" in case I get a call while I'm away from home. No difficulty remembering not to have more than one drink, though, or not to go more than an hour away from home.

- I'm trying to find a new backup for the fall, since my current backup is going back to school. It's a little challenging so far.

- It's hard being the most reliable person in terms of calling people back, etc. I'm worried that I don't know enough about my current client, who could go into labor any minute now, because we haven't had all that much contact.

- I need to spend some more time thinking about when I offer my services as a volunteer. I am volunteering for an upcoming birth. So far I have just taken people at face value when they say they need a volunteer doula. However, this upcoming mom has been mentioning interviewing nannies and her son being in private school. I charge very little - only trying to recoup my costs - and I feel a bit taken advantage of. I'll be there for her, because I said I would, but I think in the future I'm at least going to ask, "Why do you need a volunteer?" and be more agressive about asking for some barter if they really can't pay.

- Yesterday I found two used books that pertain to my job. One is Creating a Joyful Birth Experience, which I requested via ILL at the library a few weeks ago. The other is an awesome book on cosleeping called Good Nights. That made me happy. I want to spend some more time cruising used bookstores to see if I get lucky again.
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I'm sure you all know that I host parties.
I wanted to post something about being an awesome guest. I will follow it up with a post about being an awesome host.

Here are some things that awesome guests do:

- RSVP in a timely fashion. More than a week is awesome, because it means that we know there will be people at the party.
- Call or email if they can't show up after having RSVPd.
- Dress in accordance with the atmosphere of the party.
- Try introducing themselves to others, or ask the host for same. Try making conversation with people the host has introduced them to.
- Be mindful of your own alcohol consumption and that of the people you came with. If your SO gets plastered, it is your job, not ours, to make sure they don't do anything regrettable.
- Ask if you can help out. The answer is probably yes.
- Bring food or drink.
- Make no assumptions about anyone else's gender, orientation, or availability.

That's what comes to mind for now.

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