a collection of thoughts in honor of IBARW
Aug. 8th, 2007 08:45 pmI am a fourth-generation US immigrant on both sides of my family.
"Okay with interracial relationships" was one of the stated requirements for our current batch of roommates.
Why, on TV shows, do the characters almost always have relationships with characters of the same racial background? It always bugs me.
About 50 years ago, my uncle married a Catholic girl. His parents, my grandparents, refused to go to the wedding. They were divorced less than a year later. He then married a blond from a "nice family." They are still together.
I grew up in a small town in New England, which used to pride itself on the epithet "Lily-White."
When I was ten, I heard my grandmother speculate over whether some people she had seen were Jewish, and was confused by it. She explained that they were "dark, and seemed well-off."
I have helped deliver the baby of an interracial couple.
Have you all seen the Gender Pyramid in Kate Bornstein's _My Gender Workbook_? The Gender Pyramid changed the way I think about gender, and race, forever.
Neither interracial nor same-sex marriage has yet been proven to destroy the institution of marriage.
I have one family recipe, handed down from before my grandmother's time. It's for meatball soup.
Race is one of the only ways I'm not a minority.